Temporary People = Distance

Don't build your forever, on the foundation of temporary people.

STOPPING BEFORE IT'S TO LATE

Learning that everyone and everything is not supposed to come with you to your new journey and future is hard to understand. Understanding and identifying the reality instead of the potential. We tend to get caught up in potential, trying so hard to make everything in our life go right. We begin to lose focus and forget that sometimes things need to go bad or take a turn for us to receive a lesson. Those lessons are the bigger picture, the bump on our head we need to go to the next level in our story. So don't try to see around it or find the potential in it. Just allow the process to naturally flow and take whatever lesson that may come with it.

Everything is temporary. Who are you to judge me now, even when I'm low and weary. I'll get up again somehow - Tink

EVERYBODY CAN'T COME

God made it very clear to me when I started loosing people I would have never thought or question to walk out of my life it a very permanent or disrespectful way. My circle of friends and associates quickly changed to a dot a people I knew I could 100% be myself with. I had to drastically change my mindset, practicing and being obedient in keeping my faith, saying my prayers, setting goals, and most of all being patient. I even finally took the time to acknowledge and take accountability on my rights and wrongs wether past or present. Just Iike that my mentality and more began to take a 180 turn.

People will judge you wether its good or bad. That's why I do what I want! It's my life I don't care about outsiders opinions. I'm doing what makes me happy.

CHASING : FAMILY, FRIEND, OR FOE

I embarrassed myself bad this past 2022 year. I spent time chasing and proving myself to temporary people. Trying to force family to be family, showing the basics for friendships, and even the discussing the bare minimums in a relationship. Worst of all doubling back to people I prayed and asked for God to remove from my life. Spent time trying to see the good in everyone or fixing them and helping them reach their full potential. I quickly learned LET IT GO (in my Saucy Santana voice ).

I had to stop overplaying my part for people and this has allowed me to weed people out of my life who weren't meant to be.

Stop letting people who do so little for you play with your emotions. The love, loyalty, and energy you give is top tier. So remember you are not "one of them" to be played with. Let distance be the new response when you are not appreciated.

Sincerely a person who knows their WORTH

I've realized over time that some people did not love me for truly me, but only for how I showed up for them, listened, held them down, and more. But that's just who I am, not a tit for tat mindset, or fake love. I was raised this way, and became this person because that's how I always wanted to be treated. I will always continue to give out that love, but it will not abused. I dislike giving out love, to people who take it for granted or miss use it. So, I want people to know is no love lost or "beef", you just wont get the same me again. I'm at a place where I have to love people from a distance. Not being the bigger person or rekindling anything, just doing what I do best, and saying a prayer for them. Finally focusing on me.

Boujee Tip Off The Day: You may be entering a new phase in your life and everyone can't come with. So they may not hear from you anymore and that's okay. Choose yourself.