Strength, Recovery, & Evolving

Monachopsis ( mo-na-Koop-sis) : N. the persistent feeling of being out of place and not fitting in. It's the inability to adapt to your surroundings and feeling like you don't belong

A Moment of Separation

No one every speaks about how your healing process can take you to a place that requires separation and how that separation can feel like loneliness. The people you associated yourself with become more distance during your time of separation. Your phone receives less phone calls and messages. You find yourself doing a lot alone and feeling down/lonely. We must realize during this time, is a season of elevation that is coming, and sometimes separation is needed in order to elevate. Learn to shed the old you so you can evolve into the new and final version of you. Don't revert back during your healing process, it's ugly and can be ghetto, but the results will amaze you.

At this point in my life everything needs to serve a purpose. I don't need anything or anyone taking up space. The more I mature, the pickier I am about who & what I let into my world. - Shiriah Rhodes

A Moment of Preparation

This version of me wasn't built over night. This is what experience, pain, and growth look like. From insecurities, depression, and many nights of crying. I had to experience those things and more to just be at the level I am at now. My moment of preparation is pairing me for many things: #1 obtaining knowledge on the tools and lessons necessary for my bigger plans/goals and #2 separation and preparation, makes you unrecognizable to people who only knew you by your past. So stop focusing on what others have and what others may be doing, because everyone's time line and struggles aren't the same. Focus on your self, position your self, in the correct direction for your next steps.

You know anything that's not growing is dead, so we better be changing - Lauyrn Hill

Reinvent & Reintroduce yourself as much as you want

Please stop overthinking life, we don't have to have an answer to everything. That's not how life works. We begin to figure it all out by just living life and sometimes that involves messing up, missing opportunities, seeking advice and probably not taking it, plus so much more. We start to learn what's important and what isn't. This is a scary process. Trust your gut plus have faith, know that everything will work out exactly as its supposed to be. RELAX, we were never in control of it all anyway. Learn to adapt in uncomfortable situations! Don't sit, sulk, complain, or be quick to anger, because that might be exactly what's blocking you from seeing your blessing. Be comfortable in the chaos, because if you can't adapt or be comfortable in that, how do you expect to be fully comfortable in your success?

Boujee Tip Of The Day: Don't be in such a rush to figure everything out. Embrace the unknown and let your life surprise you