Misconceptions of this Boujee Black Girl

My side of the story doesn't matter, life happened, I got hurt, & I healed. Now I am living again.

It's me I'm the problem, and what I allow

I have come to the conclusion its me, I am the problem at hand. I allow to many people to do me any kind of way and I just continue to give genuine love and support anyway. Or let's take it a step deeper, I constantly choose people, who aren't will to ever pick me first. Holding on to people that I should have let go of years ago. I tend to always try to pour love, life, energy, and positivity into others. I mean that's my God given gift right? "Zoe" the literal definition of : life or life giver. Constantly giving and giving but never around the proper people who give back? But as soon as I stop everyone has those misconceptions right? She's rude, stuck up, such a ___ and so on. Well guess what "it is what it is", the one sided love stops today. I have to learn to love me more than I love y'all.

All you gotta do is talk to me.. You aint gotta move weird, I be understanding.

It's nun of your business, so mind your own

Ever think about those outside people who constantly speak on celebrities' or other peoples lives, and truly have no idea who they are or even relatively close to them? Like what posses you to just speak on it? People will have a full blown story about you and your life. When in actuality people shouldn't even be that concerned about you, or you would think they don't even care. But in yet in some situations, its someone trying to piece together your story, either they heard of or got small piece about and created their own misinformation. No matter what the case may be, its not right, and its giving very much fan behavior. Some people will even think since I don't address the situation it must be the truth/facts, right? When in actuality I just don't have the time to explain myself to people, I wont spend time pleasing the nosey people who want to be apart of my life, I'll just allow you to think or feel however you want.

Due to personal reasons I will be shining brighter than ever for the foreseeable future, please direct all complaints to the nearest trash receptable.

I resign...

Dear 2023, this is my official resignation from being the strong friend, the one to always reach out, the problem child, and whatever else may come to mind. No more being inclusive for everyone else, while constantly being excluded within that same breath. No more hardly receiving while, but yet always providing. No more I owe you, or gift giving whether monetary or physically. I am that friend whose form of self care is distance and clearing her mind, but yet it always interpreted as abandonment, and stuck with the blame of being a bad friend. That girl is no longer available, she's resigned, she officially on the new task of putting herself first no matter the thoughts or complaints of others.

Boujee Tip of The Day: Learn to present yourself in such a way that people don't even feel comfortable enough to approach you with crap or even test your boundaries.