Grow With Me or Let Go of Me

Intro

She's a 10 but she matured off of pain, and not age. She has been in on and off relationships with everyone in her life. Always being the bigger person. Rarely speaking of her emotions and having this big heart is starting to grow weary. Who is she? She is me?

Sis I want you to remember who you were before them. I want you to re-find that girl you were before you lost her. They didn't deserve you. Learn to love YOU again! - The Boujee Black Girl

Growing Pains

This post goes for relationships, friendships, and even family.

No matter what the circumstances continue to grow, even if that means standing alone. Ever wonder how some of the flowers that live in the harshest conditions end up being the most beautiful that can withstand anything? So if you plan on standing in the same pot as me or next to me, you must be strong rooted. Learning to not intertwine with others because it can damage your roots, is the biggest lesson you can learn. Only water what waters you. So when you decided its time to grow pay attention to the people who become distant, and the people who ask what's the plan. This will quickly show who are the people that were meant to be removed from your life. In this moment I'm focused on me, not needing to be liked, accepted, or understood. I'm in my own pot growing and flourishing, and I'm doing just fine.

Ever since I realized I don't actually miss the person, it just hurt my ego. I've been at peace - The Boujee Black Girl

It's Okay to Cry

I'm still that sensitive little girl, just in a older body now. Despite all that I've been through and what the world has offered to me, I remained soft, empathetic, and still willing to strive forward with tears and all. With all these things in play, I still blossomed and grew into this beautiful women with an even more beautiful soul and faith. That's something no one can take away from me. God has taken the time these last 6 months to show me this is my season of healing. Teaching me lessons before I finally get it for the last time. It has been a road traveled with many tears, but it has showed me to not waste time any more on things that do not serve me.

Let them miss you... Sometimes they take you for granted, because they think you'll be available.

Patience

Learning to be patient is a difficult yet tedious task. The thoughts of, "some point I'm going to get the love I give, right? " Being what I thought was a selfless, understanding, supportive, and unconditional women. " Holding space for others, uplifting others, and giving my love over and over again. Sometimes I sit and wonder if that love is coming back around again. I'm still learning what it means to be a women. Still learning how to love myself, and what is love. I'm still discovering new ways to fund the lifestyle I want for myself, and evolve into the women I'm supposed to be. I'm learning to be patient while I reach my full potential.

You're not lazy you just have a certain amount of energy right now and you're using it all to survive.

Boujee Tip of The Day: This is your moment of reassurance: You're going to be okay. Don't worry. stress, or overthink on things that have already been prepared for you and handled. Blessings are on there way, just be patient, everything will be alright.