Feelin The TwentyTwo's (10 Things I've Learned)

" I vision my life so simple and soft. I just want to be a creative, make clothes, and love my person. Nothing more, nothing less. Leaving my legacy through my craft and my kids". - Deasia Jenee

1. Pray, because God listens

• He's always there no matter the situation, let him hear your cries, you don't always have to be strong and carry the burdens.

2. Take on a hobby that doesn't consume you, but allows you to be free.

• Find something that is fulfilling to your lifestyle. At least 4 hobbies that will improve you! One in each category that will allow you to grow and watch how you will evolve. Something to satisfy you mentally, spiritually, physically, and financially, surprisingly.

3. Don't let someone show you their true colors more than once

• Stop trying to make excuse for their toxic behavior, understand the red flags, then run like hell... You can't fix everyone or listen to that " I'll change" lies. Continued behavior does not equal a changed attitude or behavior

4. Be a hopeless romantic

• As much as my love life has had its rocky road, I still believe that someone out there will love me with every bone in their body. But you can't turn every guy down because you got hurt once, you take the lesson then move. Understand what you want and what you need to provide for your future partner.

5. You can't do ugly things and expect to live a beautiful life

• All I can say is God don't like ugly …. So watch what you say and do, because it can come right back around, 10x worse. Don't ever think "It could never happen to me".

6. God will never leave you

• DO I EVEN NEED TO EXPLAIN ?!?!

7. Until that boy love you out loud, he's just a friend

• 1st of all if he doesn't ask you to be his girlfriend officially that's not your man! If you feel like something off trust your intuition and ask, but ask respectfully don't start an argument. (Because girl if you wrong dats embarrassing) Be honest with them lay out your boundaries and non negotiables.

8. Stop giving so much of yourself to others

• Don't be captain save a hoe! Trying to be there for everyone and not properly taking care of yourself in the midst of it, is DRAINING. It is okay to say no, if they are really meant to be in your life the will understand. Learn how to take time for you!

9. You are enough

• Never think you aren't enough just because of something or someone that didn't appreciate you correctly. Sometimes God closes a window to open a door instead, take the lesson and move on.

10. It's just a bad moment, not a bad life

• Don't think it's the end of the road, it's just a speed bump. Start over take a new approach and then try again. Don't dwell on the situation.

BOUJEE TIP OF THE DAY: What are 10 things you have learned in your lifetime? Are you still learning from them or still making the same mistakes?